We had our first success with Alex's toileting program. For the first time, we were actually able to confirm that he did a BM in the toilet (as opposed to having done one earlier which simply dropped in when he sat down).
Needless to say there was much rejoicing and he earned a special visit to the trampoline park.
Our behaviour therapist was quick to reassure us that the trampoline visits would be a short term reward. She understood they took a lot of time and money. I don't think she gets how desperate we are to have him toilet-trained. If it means spending $30 every day to take him, I will do that.
Granted, my more logical brain reminds me that we will go broke doing that but the emotional side doesn't care.